Are you different online?

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  1. keopi

    keopi Ritsu's Renegades Defender of Defoko

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    Some people act differently online while others stay the same. Sometimes people act mostly like themselves, or just not the same at all.

    I tend to act a bit more feminine, flirtatious, and open about my sexuality. Other than that, my randomness, and stupidity is basically the same, ahah.

    What about you?
     
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  3. HoneyPai

    HoneyPai Defoko's Slaves Defender of Defoko

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    I have to tone myself down when talking to people I've just met, otherwise I might scare them away
     
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  4. kamonohashi

    kamonohashi a small person Defender of Defoko

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    My spelling decreases 60% when talking to online friends, but to people I don't know or when I text people I actually know my grammar and spelling suddenly become perfect.
     
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  5. ✧ Elfrida ✧

    ✧ Elfrida ✧ The Space Witch Defender of Defoko

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    Sometimes I can be a bit more confident and silly. I'm mostly just the same as I am irl, though. Just really awkward.
     
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  6. Kitcat190

    Kitcat190 Defoko's Slaves Defender of Defoko

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    I more or less act the same, although I will admit I'm a little more sassy online(?) I bite my tongue a lot in person, but I'm a bit more vocal online I suppose.
     
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  7. CarrotBunz

    CarrotBunz Trash Defender of Defoko

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    I'm way different from what I am online
    here I'm talkative and hyper but in real life I barely talk at all being all shy and shtuff

    (basically put my personality down on Asher's wiki > < )
     
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  8. kamonohashi

    kamonohashi a small person Defender of Defoko

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    This too
     
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  9. Kale

    Kale Leaf god Defender of Defoko

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    I'm usually shy in real life. On the internet, I become loud as hell! I am also more dirty minded on the internet
     
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  10. ★M3ROKA★

    ★M3ROKA★ .Puri Supporter Defender of Defoko

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    I'm anti-social both online and offline-- well more like "far-away"? I think I come across as disinterested but I'm actually thinking about something else like "How does that work, i want to push all those buttons" and then I fall over everything, both online and offline.
     
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  11. oteto

    oteto Tetoholic Defender of Defoko

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    not much different, although im much more often mistaken for a girl online lol
     
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  12. azazel

    azazel Multipitch VCV Master Race Defender of Defoko

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    yes, im very shy and anti social irl, but in online, I m really talkative
     
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  13. keopi

    keopi Ritsu's Renegades Defender of Defoko

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    Well it seems like there is a trend of users who are secluded and invert...

    Which don't get me wrong, that isn't a bad thing! I think it's wonderful that we are able to express our feelings, negative or positive, with a bunch of other people all around the whole who share the same interests as you!

    Nearly everyone I've run into are amazing people and all I gotta say is don't change one thing about yourselves. (Unless it's for the better!) Y'all are great, and honestly, I've felt really accepted into the community!

    Also, just a side note. Many people who are not very social sometimes have some things they want to get off their chest.. You could talk to me if you want either through Skype or on here (via PM) if you do need a friend to talk to!

    Skype: pinapplesunderthesea


    Or just talk to me about anything if you want! Who knows, we might click! I usually don't bite, ahah. :3c
     
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  14. sailor _ravioli

    sailor _ravioli Ritsu's Renegades Defender of Defoko

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    in general im usually blunt and like to make a lot of bad jokes/puns but it really depends on who im talking to irl tho
    to my close friends i usually appear quite loud and extroverted(?) but on the inside im quite anti-social and REALLY enjoy a good amount of alone time
    (im also the type of person who breaks into a nervous sweat when ordering food *cri*)
    i only have a few friends im comfortable with talking about certain things that i feel uncomfortable talking about online such as politics, sexuality, and just straight up personal stuff
    in all irl im some weird introextrovert hybrid
     
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  15. keiran h

    keiran h ★Working on it★ Supporter Defender of Defoko

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    Hmm English is not my mothertounge so I can't express myself, when I'm online and I'm in a Chat I just type some phrases , I can't be myself... I tried to fit in but when you asked me or say something to me, sometimes idk how to reply...

    Me gustaría hablar con alguien del mismo idioma para así poder ser más social, llevarme bien con ustedes, reír y hacer chistes, me gustaría mucho!
     
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    partial UTAU English advocate Global Mod Supporter Defender of Defoko

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    Really talkative online, but really quiet irl.
    Online I am open about being trans, but irl I'm... well, everyone sees me as a girl and I'm not ready to tell them I'm not, I guess.
     
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  17. Euphy

    Euphy "it" Supporter Defender of Defoko

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    Definitely. I speak a LOT more on the Internet (even though English isn't my native language), I'm way more open about stuff and often times I may even come off as blunt (mostly on other places, not here) when in real life I'm very quiet, usually just responding to stuff with a simple "yup", "nah" or even a "hmh". And while I am friendly on the internet, I'm a bit too friendly in real life, since I just can't respond negatively or decline someone's offer unless it's something I most definitely don't want or don't want to do. Don't know why, but -shrug-

    I'm also very shy so there's that :U
     
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  18. ❤️Li Chen❤️

    ❤️Li Chen❤️ EXO-L Defender of Defoko

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    I am such an introvert irl but online I am such an extrovert, I tend to cower when I meet new people in person, but online I tend to open and give them a warm welcome, it's easy for me to make friends online than in real life QwQ
     
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  19. ExistenceReaper

    ExistenceReaper Procrastinator Defender of Defoko

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    Hm.
    I'm mostly the same, but I fond talking to new people easier online than offline. I'm also more likely to reply with "hm" online.
    Both online and offline I tend to worry that I have at some point said or did something to make people dislike me. And I mispronounce things/use the wrong word/forget what language I'm supposed to reply in offline just as often as typos happen online. Also online is the only place people know that I'm trans but I honestly don't know if I care enough to bother with it in real life, or rather I wouldn't know how to tell the people who don't already know. Either way, I am nervous and OCD.

    General summary of me: I exist.
     
  20. Soursop the fruit

    Soursop the fruit ✧ Fruity & Happy ✧ Defender of Defoko

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    Hello, i'm necroing a thread ouo
    I think i'm pretty much the same, but i feel more comfy online.
    I don't talk much but that doesn't mean i don't like to talk, i just don't know how to make a conversation go well on general topics, i also can't make good jokes orz so i prefer to listen.
     
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  21. Iris Dragonoure

    Iris Dragonoure Your Local Seventeen Trash Defender of Defoko

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    thanks for necro'ing uwu now i can post

    I'm just as talkative online as I am in real life. I'm a huge extrovert and I love making friends and I annoy people all the time.
    Oops.
    But I do have some form of shyness, as I can't properly talk to the McDonald's lady to tell her what I want to eat.
     
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