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Any Lolitas here?

Fawkesy

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I've been busy with work so I haven't been online a lot.
But, you guys are lucky, being smaller is easier than being bigger. You can always make something smaller to fit instead of making it bigger. Plus bigger girls don't have as many choices when it comes to buying brand since they mostly sell in like, one tiny size. x.x
But anyways, it's a good motivation to lose some weight.
Annnnnd I'm loving the stuff from this taobao place, I'll probably buy some of my first blouses from here. http://hmhmtt.taobao.com/?spm=2013.1.1000126.2.Z7jJ4w
 

shinami

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Yes, my favorites in Lolita tend to be the simple but elegant so I can actually wear them more often hah *doesn't like to stand out much*.

Oh, I don't know if you could detach the bow on the JSK. I'd assume so but maybe not? Wasn't trying to say either way, hah, just that the skirt's looked more suited for it. Bodyline is also very well known for having awful stock photos as I think it's been mentioned in this thread - I'd go by whatever you see in real photos rather than their stocks.

The yen trick is easy once I found it. When you're on Bodyline's Overseas section, click an area like Shoes. Now look at the very top of the page above everything. Change the US Dollars to Yen. Now every page you surf will have the yen price and it's cheaper! Even the shipping is - in USD it's $10 anywhere, in JPY it's $7.50.

Oh yeah, everyone has been salivating over Crystal Dream Carnival. I think it's really pretty, just slighlty too loud for me. And the price tag is painful. I have actually been liking some of Angelic Pretty's more toned down items lately, and their turtleneck cutsews/knits they release every now and then make me cry at how perfect and for me they are but how expensive they are. I kinda refuse to buy Brand blouses unless they are stupendously unique (You guys should check out Angel Fish, they're a bit more otome than lolita but they have some of the most unique and gorgeous blouses I've ever seen for around $80-90 and I think they're actually worth it).

Aw I didn't know you were bigger Fawkesy! D:
It's best to be average really since Brands are catering more towards that these days. I'm often a bit too small for some one size only releases, looking through Lolibrary. It is a shame though that when the Brands tried to sell larger sizes it didn't work out so they no longer do.

yessss join the taobao
HMHM should be great for blouses, I've heard good things about them. Though with HMHM and Kidsyoyo watch out because they're known to make the occasional replica piece if that bothers you, and almost never touch Dream of Lolita who make pretty much exclusively replicas that often aren't very good.

My latest Taobao squee are these shoes:
http://item.taobao.com/item.htm?spm=a1z10.1.w4004-7318582494.6.kyN9wn&id=14569601820
That price! Those scalloped wedges! So nice~ And a great price point though I worry slightly that quality might not be up to par but I'd have to do more research on the shop. *shrug*
 

WendytheCreeper

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While I don't think brand blouses would be too bad, I think having things like brand bloomers and brand petticoats is kinda pointless. You could totally get those things off-brand for less or even sew them yourself! For great quality too(if you know where to shop)!

Those shoes are quite soft looking. They have a pretty color : )

I'm not really sure how to help out bigger girls with sizing, though. Perhaps you can look for brand with custom sizing? They're usually indie brands...and I bet you probably know this already, but shirring adds stretch. Sadly, shirring only goes so far! I guess the human size extremes will always be disadvantaged! ;_;

It's strange though...there's more guides out there for plus-sized lolita than tiny lolitas...I guess it's because it's assumed that Japanese women are tiny? But even then, the clothes lean more towards the middle. Either way, it'll be difficult to find a blouse that flatters me.
 

shinami

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Latest find I really like is this dress by Magic Cat Street. Reservations are still going on. I really hope in August/whenever they release that they have extra pieces they sell normally as I can't afford it right now. I love the layers~
http://item.taobao.com/item.htm?spm=a1z10.3.w4002-2828099008.31.5Bomao&id=39577103577

I've been searching Taobao for lots of stuff, hah. Good keywords are here:
http://egl.livejournal.com/15813688.html
Though I reaaaaally wish I could find the keyword for turtleneck. I saw some lolita-made turtlenecks…
http://lolibrary.org/search/node/turtleneck
and they're just so pretty i love turtlenecks must have some
Preferably not for the $90-150 price tag Brands ask for though. ene
I just want to find affordable loliable turtlenecks sigh

Well another reason I think that there is so much plus-sized advice (especially in English communities, maybe it's less of a thing in Asian communities) is that Lolita is very expensive and most are in their 20s so they are full grown adults. While yes there are teen lolitas they lack the buying power of adults.

Hmm I know Anna House does custom, Bodyline has larger sizes, check Clobbaonline? He lists whether or not a brand/item can be custom sized so that might help since Taobao is hard to translate. And most very indie brands can custom size.
 

WendytheCreeper

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Well another reason I think that there is so much plus-sized advice (especially in English communities, maybe it's less of a thing in Asian communities) is that Lolita is very expensive and most are in their 20s so they are full grown adults. While yes there are teen lolitas they lack the buying power of adults.

Good point. Adults have more body fat/bulk/size than lanky teenagers.

Does anyone have any coordinates they've seen that just inspires them? Or that they like a lot?

This is the coordinate that made me love the Crystal Dream Carnival print: http://lolita-fashion.tumblr.com/post/86406384964/aitchpk-sakura-con-2014-recap-9-angelic
It makes me kinda want to do OTT sweet someday(though not during an everyday ordeal, like school)...Dat staff!

This is also one I like: http://trenchgun.tumblr.com/post/88263401391
I think this is the sort of sweet I'm going for? Not too OTT but not too boring? I love the color, it's real pretty

This one of Mana makes me wish there were more gothic lolitas that use white as their main color and not as an accent: http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_llpcc22J9L1qd31i0.jpg
He just does it so well here!
 

HiddenVenia

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I want an opinion. Do you think $60 is a good price for a Melty Mermaid OP replica? I'm so tempted to buy it, but I don't know if I should buy it or not. (the picture is what the dress looks like)

EDIT: The listing for the dress just vanished! I messaged the seller because I want to buy the dress, so I hope they'll reply.

EDIT2: Worked things out. Bought it one impulse. I still need to buy a petticoat and a purse thought the purse is optional.
 

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Ehhhh who is the replica by? If it's Dream of Lolita I would avoid it. And keep in mind that if you buy replicas you can never resell them on EGL Sales Comm, I don't know if Lacemarket and other places let you. Say more details about it maybe?

Oooh dang those coords are fancy! I really prefer toned down lolita casual/classic, so mine likely won't be too inspiring for you, but lets see…
http://choconoke.tumblr.com/post/90237413289/wonder-party-chocolate-boots-innocent-world
http://altered-imagery.tumblr.com/post/91339036102/i-was-playing-around-with-some-of-my-new-pieces
http://altered-imagery.tumblr.com/post/88458944927/another-winter-otome-outfit-featuring-indie-brand
http://cloudberrylady.tumblr.com/post/82090471238/photocorner-pictures-of-our-reneissance (wish those dresses were buyable)
http://lindsaylikesdresses.tumblr.com/post/91457974121/from-sunday-at-anime-midwest-thank-you-xiaoyu
http://fyeahgothiclolita.tumblr.com/post/91643103195
http://38.media.tumblr.com/d07618ebc6cbaebf50d3436c27b36b0e/tumblr_mwntbaCycL1qi6atlo2_1280.jpg
http://blackrosegreenmoss.tumblr.com/post/89814893058
http://choconoke.tumblr.com/post/88845482974/summery-black-cat-witch-and-an-apple-tree-jsk
http://hidoxrose.tumblr.com/post/69443577831/the-key-to-the-dream-of-a-pirate

there we go is that enough *shot*
Really love all those outfits, simple but elegant in most!

Also excited as I got my Innocent World order today, will post about them on my Tumblr later~~~
 

HiddenVenia

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The dress is coming second hand from another girl, but I believe it might be Dream of Lolita, but it looked really good in the pictures which is why I liked and wanted it. I know LaceMarket doesn't allow replicas because that's where the dress was listed originally and the mods deleted it. I suppose I'll use Ebay or the buy/sell/trade threads on /cgl/ if I need to get rid of it.

Those are really nice coords! My only nitpick is that I wish they won't put the clothes on the floor.
 

WendytheCreeper

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Those are some sweet coords right there! I think the trick is that it has to be simple, but not boring. It's like the age ol' dilemma of character design where the outfit must be coherent and simple, yet it cannot be just another t-shirt/jeans combo, you know? That is to say, those are great coords!

Now onto the serious question of the day: Should I consider wigs?

It was something I started to wonder after my friends jokingly asked about it. I have a short pixie cut, so it doesn't leave too much room for any variation aside from perhaps hair chalk and hair accessories. But then, aren't wigs uncomfy? Will people still recognize me with a wig on? I mean, people recognized me even when I cut off all my hair. I can't imagine that the bullying could be all that bad, there are lots of girls in my school who dye their hair like every single day. But yet again, that's normal hair.

It's such foreign territory for me, wigs. I find my self everyday kinda leaning more and more towards OTT sweet hahaha. Wigs are scary. welp
 

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Well if you don't mind it being a replica, like the condition, and trust the seller, you can if you'd like. $60 is a pretty low price for lolita but pretty normal for Dream of Lolita. Sometimes they make perfectly fine pieces, just in lolita make sure to admit that it's a replica rather than pretend it's the real thing.

You can if you'd like! Most lolitas do use wigs, and if you have a pixie cut it might be the best. I'm growing my hair out simply because I love my hair color and plus wigs are an extra expense. If you want good wigs however they run quite a bit - lots of lolitas recommend Priscila (Priscilla?) for realistic wigs but they run $60 and up.

I think I'll get wigs some day because I think brown and black hair are beautiful and I'll never dye my hair hah.
 

shinami

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okay
i really need to post this here
i think taobao wins the internet
http://taobao-finds.tumblr.com/post/91300012414/238-yuan-38-32-usd
 

shinami

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holy crud this JSK is so elegant and pretty
http://item.taobao.com/item.htm?spm=a230r.1.14.58.bZDiIJ&id=38364455062&ns=1#detail
Taobao brands need to stop releasing dresses I want, I can't afford them right now! *cries*

At least Surface Spell is partnered with Clobbaonline, so if they run on their Taobao store Clobba can probably get more. Seriously this dress is so appealing to me. Every coloraway is gorgeous! The green especially.
 

HiddenVenia

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My Melty Mermaid replica came today! It's super nice! I don't know if it matters, but the dress has Alice and the Pirates on the side so maybe it wasn't Dream of Lolita?
 

shinami

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realized that surface spell GOTHIC is partnered with clobba not regular surface spell *cries*

Is this the original OP that it's a replica of? http://lolibrary.org/apparel/melty-mermaid-princess-op
If so it's probably Dream of Lolita. While sometimes they erase the name and sometimes they change it (I remember when researching replicas and Dream of Lolita to see if they only did replicas a print with "Angelic Preety" on it), but sometimes they leave it completely alone.
 

WendytheCreeper

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Mmm Anna House has some pretty cute blouses. I quite like this one a lot: http://www.annahousefashion.com/detail.asp?catid=76395&subcatid=0&pdtid=624975&private= It kinda reminds me of Ranka Lee(even though I haven't watched that anime)...but in a good way!

On that dress shinami...The fact that it references Jason and the Golden Fleece is really awesome! I wonder what translation it is?

A lot of stuff, from what I've read, is being catered more to the classic style. These days, classic is very popular and is overtaking sweet...and from what I've read, OTT could be applied to classic too: http://fyeahlolita.blogspot.com/2011/07/taking-classic-lolita-to-next-level.html

What do you guys think? I think it's nice that with classic's popularity, there is the possibility of crossing over with sweet! I could dabble in classic!
 

shinami

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Finally posted my Innocent World items if you guys want to see pictures/descriptions of their products IRL!
http://shinamilolita.tumblr.com/post/92786347498/innocent-world-haul

I've glanced at Anna House a few times since they do custom sizing, but I don't like most of their stuff (covered in ribbons and sweet) - I kinda like this dress http://www.annahousefashion.com/detail.asp?catid=76392&subcatid=0&pdtid=624962&private= but for the price I feel like I could get something I liked better on Taobao.

Surface Spell really likes that Golden Fleece reference print, I think it's on three releases between their two branches hah.

Oh, definetly! Though in the three years since that article I think that OTT Classic has just become another part of regular classic - bonnets and accessories are very common in meet photos. I'm really thrilled by classic being more popular though, more dresses for me to like and less to cringe at. Even Angelic Pretty has been making some nice ones like:
http://lolibrary.org/apparel/classic-garden-op
yay classic being cute

I'm also really sad. http://chiffonrose.com/collections/dresses/products/metamorphose-school-jumperskirt-jsk It's so cute, but I'm saving up to buy some dresses from Taobao. I shouldn't buy it. *watches the cute dress chance pass buy*
 

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That's a cute Metamorphose dress ^^ I wouldn't think that'd you look at such a brand because they tend to do mostly sweet, but yet again, even AP is catering to classic a little : )

The corsage has a very pretty soft pink color. I like it quite a lot. It's so cute on the head ^-^
 

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I check every brand, you never know what they have!

Ohhhh and I just realized, Venia you totally need to take pictures of you in your dress! Even if you don't have a petticoat yet! share pictures yes
 

HiddenVenia

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shinami said:
I check every brand, you never know what they have!

Ohhhh and I just realized, Venia you totally need to take pictures of you in your dress! Even if you don't have a petticoat yet! share pictures yes

I'll have to do that later, but I'll get on it.