The LGBTQIA+ Thread

Discussion in 'Chit-Chat' started by Leo, Oct 4, 2014.

  1. Ronnie <UniverseJuice>

    Ronnie <UniverseJuice> Ruko's Ruffians Defender of Defoko

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    There's a chance I found this thread while stalking somebody else's profile whoops

    So hello hello!
    I'm an asexual, panromantic tri-gender spawn who dyes their hair wayyy too often ^^; I tend to lean towards the more masculine side of things, and prefer [ He/They ] pronouns.
    I've been dating TsukiHikari816 for two whole years now, and finally feel comfortable in my skin.
    I'll be getting my name legally changed in the upcoming future, and that is really exciting for me!!
    Anyway Hi!
     
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  2. ExistenceReaper

    ExistenceReaper Procrastinator Defender of Defoko

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    Hm. I'm not sure how I ended up on this thread but oh well.

    I'm honestly too introverted to know how to explain my own psychology. I'm physically female but think of myself as a guy. I honestly don't care whether other people know that or not, though.
     
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  3. bio

    bio VocalSynth Enthusiast Supporter Defender of Defoko

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    UPDATE: im a ホモくれ┏(^o ^┏)┓ i guess
    deleted original post b/c it made me cringe
     
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  4. aoi・kurt

    aoi・kurt Shoutbox Lurker™ Defender of Defoko

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    I go by Aoi/Kurt and am a demiromantic bisexual (my sexual attractions are based on sex, not gender; guys > gals). I am biologically male, but I don't really care about gender.
    *still expecting straight allies to arrive*
     
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  5. TDRloid

    TDRloid Momo's Minion

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    Hi, I'm gay as hell. I'm good with he/him or they/them.
     
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  6. aoi・kurt

    aoi・kurt Shoutbox Lurker™ Defender of Defoko

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    I'm sorta afraid to ask for an opinion regarding this here but here it goes **;;
    So, rumour has it that this guy I was recently crushing on is gay. (in short lol)
    My question is, if I were to actually date him , how open should I be regarding our relationship irl? Because I live in a sickly LGBTQIA+phobic country. (I once read that a gay couple died at a restaurant coz of this, but they immediately deleted this post a few days after idk why)
    Also, as I said, those are only rumours. Should I even confess to him to begin with? We're pretty much acquaintances and I don't want to weird him out, f**k the mind outta his head nor ruin our acquaintanceship if the rumours weren't true ;-;
     
  7. TDRloid

    TDRloid Momo's Minion

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    I would say just hang out with them just a little longer so you know more about him. This way you might be able to gauge whether rumors are true (or maybe they'll even tell you they're gay) and at the same time you can determine if this is just a temporary crush or not. Once you get to a point where you can safely confide secrets to one another, you could tell them. Just be safe!
     
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  8. aoi・kurt

    aoi・kurt Shoutbox Lurker™ Defender of Defoko

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    Okie thank for the tip!
     
  9. Shibaru 101

    Shibaru 101 Teto's Territory Defender of Defoko

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    0w0 Idk about me but I usually have a crush on someone when we were close. So I guess I am demisexual panromantic? (or vice versa)
     
  10. 海天使

    海天使 Stalker of Everyone Defender of Defoko

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    Hi I am a transgender male who is panromantic I am very single and lonely lol
     
  11. Iris Dragonoure

    Iris Dragonoure zhong chenle's wife Defender of Defoko

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    Ayy, pansexual intersex here.
    I sexually identify as female, but a Y chromosome has left me with hairy arms(that I REFUSE to shave) and a really dirty mind. So I normally hang out with the guys because they also like ecchi anime. As for pronouns, I prefer they/them, but she/her is fine with me.

    I realized I was pansexual when I met a kid last year who identified with no gender. Oh my god did I fall in love with them. They didn't notice me for half the year ;-;.
     
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  12. partial

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    totally forgot this thread existed and i would like to say
    without going into too much detail

    sex totally is not my thing.

    learned i am 546000% asexual, but panromantic

    also genderneutral, but i don't care what pronouns you use to refer to me.
     
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  13. YukitoYuki

    YukitoYuki Pronouns: They/Them Supporter Defender of Defoko

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    (how I didn't know about this thread until now????)

    So, hi every nice body!

    I am.... Let's say that I'm non binary (also less or more genderfluid too). I go with he/him pronouns but they/them is fine as well. :sing:

    I like primarily boys but might like girl as well~~(?!?) •^•)

    You can talk to me if you want~~~ òwó
     
  14. aoi・kurt

    aoi・kurt Shoutbox Lurker™ Defender of Defoko

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    Gender and sexuality is bootifully complicated af.
    I'll just repeat what a few people have said in this thread:
    Although this place is to be a safe haven for LGBTQIA+ UTAU users/fans, please bear in mind that non-LGBTQIA+ individuals are always welcome to leave a message here too, as long as they don't mean any harm.
     
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  15. Milk

    Milk i like bad things Supporter Defender of Defoko

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    how nya'll doin im a bi trans lady :wink:
     
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  16. ExistenceReaper

    ExistenceReaper Procrastinator Defender of Defoko

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    I forgot this existed then found my old post from back in February In my first post I said I didn't care whether people know or not, but after realizing just how bad this impacts my mental state, I'd prefer to say I don't want it to be the focal point of my life. Not sure how well that'll go though oh well
     
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  17. Hazu パワ

    Hazu パワ Weeaboo yet not Weeaboo Defender of Defoko

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    OMG I just realize thi after I posted my thread-

    Im Hazuki(Kyameran is real name) I'm a Transgender Woman and I also happen to be bisexual~

    I usually don't tell people until I get clocked but I'm trying to be more open about it.
     
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  18. Piia

    Piia Retired User Retired User Defender of Defoko

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    Hi everyone, I'm Piia (my username is close to my real name).
    I'm a homoromantic asexual. I'm proud of it but still closeted to my family (and acquaintances)
    Can I share my issue here?
    I came out to my friends, which seemed like a big mistake. Now, none of them have been talking to me or just 'seen' my messages and not reply, especially since I've stopped going to church.
    My family is a firm Christian one and sticks to EVERY principle in the Bible (especially the 'gays will be damned' one. They won't tolerate that). I love God and Jesus, but being ace is my identity I just can't stop it.
    I try to act 'straight' in front of my mom, but sometimes I kinda slip, just like today haha
    I've heard my dad say that he will send away any of his children that aren't straight, and never talk to them again.
    My mom keeps on telling me that I'm gonna be married and that I must look for a decent man... But the idea of permanently being with a man disgusts and haunts me
    with the physical trauma I've faced It's gone even worse.
    Sometimes I just cry before I sleep or when I'm alone because I feel so pressured to keep on hiding... I'm tired of it.
    Sorry I'm crying while typing this. I just wish that I could be somewhere where I won't feel judged and hurting this bad.
     
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  19. Iris Dragonoure

    Iris Dragonoure zhong chenle's wife Defender of Defoko

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    Looks like we're in the same boat, my friend. My parents are VERY Christian, and I would get killed if I came out. I'm waiting until I've moved across the planet to tell them, and then they can't do anything about it. My family also has control issues. Everybody thinks they can control everybody else. It's sickening. My parents won't let me have a phone, and they're trying to connect it to teen pregnancy. I just want to keep in contact with all of my friends.
     
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  20. Piia

    Piia Retired User Retired User Defender of Defoko

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    Awww *pats your back and hug you*
    I love my parents and family, it's just that their intolerance with the LGBTQIA+ community makes me feel very bad about being myself.
    Yea lol about the phone thing I feel you so much XD I currently have one (after like YEARS) because I now don't have anyone to talk to and that I don't need one anymore *facepalm*
     

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